I'm selfish? Oh, really?

Please do enlighten me, which part of my actions are selfish?

I'm selfish because.....?

1) .....I ask honesty and give the same in return

2).......when I do or don't do things it depends from my will not from how convenient it is for me to do it or not do it

3) ....I don't pretend to be something I'm not

4) ....I have tendency to come up with excuses when I try to protect people around me from negativity

5) ...the only thing I promise is that I'll try


I can enlighten you why I think trixi is selfish.

1) She does things for others only because it raises her reputation

2) She demands from people always to be perfect

3) She demands you to change yourself only because she can't stand any negativity, not even the smallest one

4) She considers only she and her perfection band are allowed to do some things and if you're not in her perfection band then she considers you don't have any rights to do the same things she and her perfection band does.